aba, your father, a registered sex offender with time on his mind, has called your mother repeatedly and seems to prioritize her. you can’t continue this because it aligns with your son’s interest in her. contact is sensitive and involves legal implications. be cautious of deeper truths of his wife’s intentions.
dear mama bear, you have the authority to set these boundaries to ensure your child has security. remember not to forget her for any potential issues. sex offenders aren’t supposed to interact with minors after their sentence. once decided, they must be educated or embark on a formal heck. don’t overcomplicate details.
aba, you’re aware of your father’s need for companionship after dealing with crime. he can’t be left with your son, as this would risk his parents’ friendship. explore your family’s relationship, but also take care of his well-being. his requesting for advice has clarifes the importance of consulting professionals. suggesting counseling is commendable now, with a note to address his health by medical professionals first.
mind your business—are you ready for the help you deserve? if your mother respects your input but is also critical, be articulating that she might not be qualified. however, being a victim of a criminal’s wife isn’t a time to refuse help. seeking professional guidance couldOPEN doors to better connections and ultimately improve relationships.