Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s relationship blossomed from a professional collaboration into a whirlwind romance, culminating in an engagement. Their journey began in 2015 when Blanco contributed to Gomez’s musical success by producing her hit single “Same Old Love.” This collaboration marked the beginning of a fruitful professional partnership and the foundation of their friendship. They continued to work together on several other tracks, including “Kill ‘Em With Kindness,” “I Can’t Get Enough,” and “Single Soon,” solidifying their bond and shared creative vision. While their initial connection was rooted in music, their friendship eventually evolved into something deeper.
Hints of a budding romance surfaced in July 2023, when Gomez celebrated her 31st birthday with Blanco among the guests. A photo of Gomez embracing both Blanco and Paris Hilton sparked dating rumors, although nothing was confirmed at the time. Fueling the speculation further, Gomez alluded to a new relationship during the filming of her cooking show, “Selena + Chef: Home for the Holidays,” in December 2023. Later that month, she officially confirmed her relationship with Blanco via an Instagram comment, declaring him “the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”
The couple’s relationship quickly progressed from private moments to public displays of affection. They openly shared their love on social media, exchanging endearing comments and posting intimate photos. In January 2024, they made their first public appearance together at a Los Angeles Lakers game, comfortably seated courtside and enjoying each other’s company. Days later, Gomez, nominated for a Golden Globe, shared a photo of herself sitting on Blanco’s lap, proclaiming that even without winning the award, she felt like a winner.
As their relationship continued to flourish, speculation about their future intensified. In May 2024, during an appearance on “The Howard Stern Show,” Blanco expressed his desire to become a father and hinted at a potential engagement with Gomez. He openly gushed about his love for her, stating that he couldn’t imagine a better world than one with her by his side. Throughout the summer, they shared glimpses of their relationship on social media, celebrating holidays and spending quality time together.
The fall of 2024 brought further affirmation of their deep connection. Blanco accompanied Gomez to her annual Rare Impact Fund Benefit in October, a significant event in her life, further showcasing their commitment to each other. Gomez later described their relationship as the “safest” she had ever felt, expressing her vision for a future with Blanco and her contentment in sharing some aspects of their lives publicly while cherishing their private moments.
Finally, in December 2024, after more than a year of dating, Gomez and Blanco announced their engagement. The joyous news was shared on Instagram, with Gomez showcasing her engagement ring and Blanco playfully referring to her as his “wife.” The couple then celebrated Christmas and New Year’s Eve together, capping off a year of love, growth, and commitment. Their journey from collaborators to life partners exemplifies a modern love story, born from shared passion and nurtured into a deep and enduring bond. They entered the new year ready to embark on their next chapter, with marriage and perhaps a family on the horizon.
